Works with
- Anger
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Depression
How Lydia works
Practical facts
- Credentials
- LISW
- Licensed in
- Iowa
- Years in practice
- 25
- Languages
- English
- Session format
- Online, through our partner platform
About Lydia
Lydia Frazier is a licensed independent social worker who helps people facing anger, anxiety, depression, and the fallout from past trauma. She meets people where they are and focuses on practical steps to reduce distress and regain a sense of control. Lydia writes plainly and listens with care to what matters most to each person.
With 25 years of experience, Lydia draws on several evidence-informed approaches to shape treatment. She blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Attachment-Based ideas, tailoring sessions to each person’s history and goals.
Background and approach
Therapy often includes learning skills to manage intense feelings, testing unhelpful thoughts, and building routines that support mental health. Lydia uses a strengths-based, holistic lens when learning a client’s story. She explores how relationships, sleep, diet, movement, and life events link to current struggles.
That broader view helps identify simple, concrete changes that make life easier day to day. Sessions are conversational and goal-oriented. Lydia helps people create a clear plan, with small steps to practice between meetings.
She emphasizes compassion and realistic pacing so progress feels doable. People come for many reasons including stress, relationship issues, grief, parenting strain, addiction concerns, attention differences, and identity-related matters. Lydia’s work also touches on adoption and foster care issues, attachment challenges, and coping with separation or divorce.
What Lydia works with
Everything Lydia lists, in the therapist's own terms. Anger is the reason this directory exists; the rest tells you what usually sits alongside it in Lydia's practice.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Attachment issues
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Lydia lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist names and does not check training records.
Practical therapeutic approaches for online work
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people clarify what matters to them and take small actions toward those values even when feelings are strong. It is useful for anxiety, depression, and anger when avoidance keeps problems stuck. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, CBT, focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors; it often includes simple homework like tracking patterns and testing new responses to reduce distress. Finding the right approach is part of the work. Lydia treats therapy as a collaboration - she will talk with each person about goals and try strategies together to see what fits. Adjustments are expected, and she mixes methods to match needs and preferences rather than using a one-size-fits-all plan. Online therapy offers many practical benefits. Video calls let you keep visual cues and practice skills in real time. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or when you prefer not to be on camera. Live chat and text-based messaging make brief check-ins or skill practice possible between sessions and can fit into a busy day. These options support flexible scheduling and make it easier to keep momentum on therapy goals.Questions people ask about Lydia
What kinds of problems does Lydia help with?
She works with a broad range of concerns including anger, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship trouble, parenting strain, grief, addictions, and identity-related issues.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her approach is practical and individualized. Sessions blend skill teaching, values work, and attention to relationships to make manageable changes.
How much experience does she have?
She has 25 years of clinical experience working with people facing mood, trauma, and relational challenges.
Where is she licensed and based?
She is an LISW - Licensed Independent Social Worker - practicing in Iowa.
Can I work with her if I live outside the United States?
Sessions are offered in English and she is not taking international clients at this time.
What session formats are available?
She meets by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does payment work?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule based on therapist availability.