Works with
- Anger
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
How Melinda works
Practical facts
- Credentials
- LMFT
- Licensed in
- Florida
- Years in practice
- 32
- Languages
- English
- Session format
- Online, through our partner platform
About Melinda
Dr. Melinda Lawless Coker helps people who are dealing with anger, stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, relationship worries, and life changes. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than 32 years of experience.
Her approach aims to make things feel more manageable and steady so people can make clearer choices about their lives. She draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how early relationships shape current reactions. She also uses client-centered methods to keep conversations focused on each person’s needs and goals.
Background and approach
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps people notice patterns of thought and behavior that feed anger or anxiety and then practice different responses. Dr. Coker has worked across many settings, including inpatient drug treatment, outpatient therapy, high school counseling, county drug programs, women’s prison services, and drug court treatment.
That range shaped her ability to handle crisis-driven and everyday concerns alike. Her background includes helping people heal from trauma such as sexual abuse, domestic violence, and related issues. In sessions she emphasizes clear boundaries and learning emotional needs so clients can make healthier choices.
She uses practical exercises, role-based methods, and structured skills practice when those tools fit the situation. Her style mixes straightforward feedback with empathy and a focus on what clients want to change. People who choose Dr.
Coker can expect collaborative planning, direct skill building, and attention to how relationships affect mood and behavior. She welcomes questions and invites people to discuss what would make therapy useful and relevant to their life.
What Melinda works with
Everything Melinda lists, in the therapist's own terms. Anger is the reason this directory exists; the rest tells you what usually sits alongside it in Melinda's practice.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- LGBT
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Melinda lists
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist names and does not check training records.
How her approaches translate to online work
Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early bonds shape current reactions. Online sessions can use conversation and guided exercises to identify attachment patterns and practice new ways of relating to others. Client-Centered Therapy centers the person's own goals and perspective, giving space to talk and be heard while the therapist follows the client's lead to clarify priorities and next steps. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions, and uses simple worksheets and in-session practice to change patterns that feed anger or anxiety.Choosing the right approach is a shared process. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, try a method, and adjust plans as needed. That means sessions can shift from exploring relationship history to practicing concrete skills when those steps feel most useful.
Online formats offer practical benefits. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and role-based exercises. Phone sessions work well when a lighter bandwidth option is needed or when being on camera is not preferred. Live chat or text messaging can support short check-ins, skill reminders, or quick problem-solving between longer sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or travel schedules while keeping the focus on real change.
Questions people ask about Melinda
What kinds of problems does she help with?
She supports people with anger, stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting concerns, depression, bipolar symptoms, ADHD, and trauma-related concerns.
How would she describe her therapy style?
Her style is direct but warm, with an emphasis on clear boundaries and practical skills. Sessions balance listening with exercises to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.
What is her professional background?
She has 32 years of clinical experience across settings such as inpatient drug treatment, outpatient therapy, high school counseling, county drug programs, women’s prison services, and drug court treatment.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
She holds the LMFT credential and is based in Florida; the profile also notes FL LMFT and FL Psychologist in her background.
Which languages or international clients are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin a therapy relationship with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.